The new normal

5 a.m. Get up. Find clothes to wear. Wash a few dishes, pick up clutter in public living areas.

5:30 a.m. Shower, dress, etc.

6:10 a.m. Make smoothie, coffee, pack lunch

6:30 a.m. blow hair dry

6:40 a.m. Leave house to pick up van pool

6:50 a.m. Drive van to work.

7:50 a.m. Analyze, argue, read, consider, discuss (10 %). Oh, and meet and write memos (40 %). Also, put out fires (50%).

noon Over lunch, hit the interwebs or head to yoga, if not continuing with 7:50 a.m. pursuits.

1 p.m.  See 7:50 a.m. Repeat.

5 p.m. Leave for van

5:10 p.m. Ride home – hit the interwebs or read or fail to escape chatty van rider.

6:15 p.m. Eat dinner with family. Endure tantrums, enjoy giggles, clean up. Possibly go for a short walk.

7:30 p.m. Begin bedtime routine.

9 p.m. End bedtime routine. Good night: climb sleepily out of bed and clean dishes, fold laundry, pick up house, clean until 10 p.m. Most nights: fall asleep and fall woefully behind.

Rinse, repeat. Weekend variations include longer walks with kid during the day, play dates, playground visits and menu planning and grocery shopping. W00t.

7 Comments »

  Meg Jeske wrote @

We haven’t gotten to catch up much, so I especially appreciate this glimpse at what your days look like.

  shanamadele wrote @

Thanks. I miss hanging out with friends. Heck, I miss hanging out, period.

  Barry wrote @

Eventually, they DO move out, believe me.

Strangely enough, though, you are still happy to see them when you can.

  shanamadele wrote @

I’m trying to keep perspective, and find pockets of time for myself (like this) to keep myself sane. Not ready for him to be gone, just asleep before and awake after I am.

  Barry wrote @

I know you will enjoy and treasure the moments and memories that are being created now.

Children have a way of letting you know when it’s time for you to let go (frequently this is signaled by the slamming of doors and expletives).

Fortunately, that phase, like all others, is transitory.

  Jessie wrote @

Hang in there! Here we often talk about the “new normal” in our life. (We’ve had little time to come up for air lately…and your tupperware is begging me to take it home to you.)

  shanamadele wrote @

Yep. I got nothing to complain about. Not in a hurry for the tupperware, but it would be a lovely excuse to see you.


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